Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Uncomplicated

This poem is not thought provoking or intellectually stimulating. But it simplifies what we so often complicate. Love.

Smell her hair.

Pick her up and pretend you're going to throw her in the pool . . . she'll scream and fight you, but secretly she'll love it.

Hold her hand while you talk. Hold her hand while you drive. Just hold her hand.

Tell her she looks pretty.

Pray for her.

Look her in the eyes when you talk to her.

Tell her stupid jokes.

Tickle her, even if she says stop.

Slow dance with her.

Let her fall asleep in your arms.

Get her mad, then kiss her.

Tease her. Let her tease you back.

Stay up with her when she's sick.

Kiss her forehead.

Let her wear your clothes.

Pray with her.

Kiss her in the rain.

And when you fall in love with her . . . tell her.

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Artificial Stimulation

Ever have one of those mornings where one cup of coffee just won't cut it?



And one of your regulars tells you that he and his new wife skipped their honeymoon in order to do missions?



It's only 8am.



Can someone please pass the cream and sugar?

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Conversion Code of Conduct

This is an article I read this morning in the NY Times about a conversion code of conduct that is being created "to preserve the right of Christians to spread their religion while avoiding conflict among faiths."

Interesting, and frankly, very unnerving.

Click here for the article.

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

Tuesday Night Recipe

1 Panini
1 OK, 1 1/2 glasses of wine
1 Favorite pair of PJs
2 Comfy slippers
1 Romantic comedy

Combine ingredients on favorite spot of the couch. Add you.

Serves 1-2. Preferrably 2. But 1 is just as good.

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

Immortal

I had the opportunity to watch the movie "300" for the second time yesterday and I was reminded of how much I really love it. I'm not usually into action/drama/ripping people's heads off type movies, but I was convinced to see it the first time by a group of friends and thoroughly enjoyed it.

For those of you not familiar with "300", let me give you a little background. The movie is loosely based on the historical Battle of Thermopylae. I say loosely because in actuality, the movie is based on Frank Miller's comic version of the famous battle. The purpose of the movie was to create a mythical version of a real-life event, instead of vice versa, which is usually how Hollywood works. The legendary battle pits the warriors of Sparta lead by King Leonidas against the massive Persian army.

There are a number of great scenes and quotable moments, but one scene and line in particular stuck out to me the first time I saw the movie and again when I watched it for the second time, but for two different reasons. The Spartans are traveling to Thermopylae and have reached camp for the night. They realize they are being followed by a creature of some sort so King Leonidas goes to investigate. He finds a man named Ephialtes who is a Spartan, but a very hideous disfigured being. He should not even be alive based on Spartan standards. Ephialtes wants to fight with the Spartan army, but Leonidas denies him because he is not physically capable. Ephialtes curses Leonidas, swearing revenge, and in a later scene Ephialtes is pledging his allegiance to Xerxes, the Persian king.

In the final scene of the movie, before the last battle takes place, King Leonidas and Ephialtes are face to face. Leonidas says to Ephialtes, "may you live forever." Immediately, a look of horrified shame comes over the face of Ephialtes.

Now, the first time I saw the movie I assumed that Leonidas was pulling the "kill him with kindness" act. You know how it goes....someone wrongs you in the worst way so you wish them the best of luck, tell them to have a great life, and basically make them feel like s---. Good job Leonidas. When I watched it the second time, I honestly had the same reaction. It wasn't until I watched the special features that I understood the true implications of that statment. In ancient Sparta, the most desired way to die was in battle. Living forever would have shown weakness and a lack of loyalty. Two things that the people of Sparta would have been most offended by. Leonidas had cursed Ephialtes in the worst way imaginable.

The idea of living forever has taken on a completely different connotation in the modern world. Today, people will go to great lengths to try and live forever, or at least as long as they can. But as a Christian who believes in eternal life after death, I'm going to have to take the side of Spartans on this one. I have no desire to live forever. Not because I believe that living forever is a sign of weakness or because dying for my country is the only conceivable way of dying, but because I know what lies on the other side of this life.

And that is worth dying for.

Sunday, August 12, 2007

Psalm 130

Verses 1-6: Confession

"Out of the depths I cry to you, O Lord;
O Lord, hear my voice.
Let your ears be attentive
to my cry for mercy.

If you, O Lord kept a record of sins,
O Lord, who could stand?
But with you there is forgiveness;
therefore you are feared.

I wait for the Lord, my soul waits,
and in his word I put my hope.
My soul waits for the Lord
more than watchmen wait for the morning,
more than watchmen wait for the morning."

Verses 7-8: Assurance

"O Israel, put your hope in the Lord,
for with the Lord is unfailing love
and with him is full redemption.
He himself will redeem Israel
from all their sins."

Tuesday, August 07, 2007

Damn Good Man

Since I've ventured into the subject of great men, I wanted to post this poem written by one of the greatest men I've ever had the pleasure of knowing. My dad posted this on his blog exactly two months before he passed away. I haven't had the heart to delete his blog so you can view it there as well.

It's ok to ask questions,
It's better to demand answers.

It's ok to feel sorry for yourself,
It's better to release your emotions.

It's ok to complain,
It's better to compliment.

It's ok to accept hugs,
It's better to offer hugs.

It's ok to cry a little,
It's better to cry a lot (men, too).

It's ok to accept charity,
It's ok because people just want to help.

It's ok to talk about your illness,
It's ok to listen to advice.

It's ok to be angry,
It's better to be happy.

It's ok to have doubts,
It's better to have faith.

It's ok to have a bad hair day,
It's ok to be bald (women, too).

It's ok to pray,
It's ok to accept prayer.

"O Lord my God, I called to You
for help and You healed me."
Psalm 30:2

Monday, August 06, 2007

Don't Say It

I'm tired of being single.

There, I've said it.

I don't say it very often for a myriad of reasons. For one, if I were to actually admit to the world that I hate being single and I want to get married and it doesn't happen,

I've failed.

But I've come to terms with admitting that I want to be married because a friend of mine has recently entered into a relationship with a wonderful man. The kind of man I'm looking for. The kind of man I didn't think existed. But he does. Now I have proof.

And that gives me hope.